Building7 min readOctober 29, 2026

The Uncomfortable Truth About Building in Public

Building in public has become one of the most talked-about strategies in entrepreneurship. The idea is simple: share your journey, document your progress, show your failures, and build an audience while building your business. In theory, it sounds like the perfect opportunity. You get to attract customers, connect with like-minded people, establish credibility, and create opportunities before your product is even finished.

But there is an uncomfortable truth that most people don't talk about: building in public can become a distraction disguised as progress.

In a world where everyone wants to be seen, it is easy to confuse attention with achievement. Posting about your business feels productive. Sharing your goals makes you feel accountable. Receiving likes and encouraging comments gives you a temporary sense of momentum. But none of these things necessarily mean your business is moving forward. You can spend months documenting the journey of building something without actually building something people want. You can become known for talking about entrepreneurship while never developing the skills required to succeed at it.

The internet rewards visibility, not necessarily value. It rewards the person who tells the most compelling story, shares the most relatable struggle, or presents the most impressive results. Unfortunately, real business growth is rarely that exciting. It often involves repetitive work, uncomfortable conversations, failed experiments, unhappy customers, and long periods when nothing seems to happen. These are the moments that determine whether a business survives, yet they are the moments people are least excited to share.

The danger is not building in public. The danger is performing success instead of doing the work required to achieve it.

Another uncomfortable truth is that the audience you build may not be the audience your business needs. When you share your entrepreneurial journey, you often attract other founders, aspiring entrepreneurs, and people who enjoy motivational content. They may support your posts, celebrate your milestones, and encourage you to keep going. But support does not automatically translate into sales. Other founders might love hearing about your startup without ever needing your product.

This is why attention must be connected to a real business objective. An audience is valuable when it helps you understand your customers, build trust with potential buyers, distribute your product, or create meaningful opportunities. Without that connection, you may spend months optimizing content for people who will never become customers. You can have thousands of followers and still struggle to generate revenue. You can go viral and remain completely disconnected from the market you are trying to serve.

Building in public can also create a dangerous relationship with validation. Once people begin watching your journey, you may start making decisions based on what will receive the most attention rather than what is best for your business. You might choose a more exciting idea because it makes a better post. You might exaggerate your progress because admitting that you are stuck feels embarrassing. You might abandon a promising strategy because it isn't generating enough engagement.

Slowly, the audience becomes the boss.

Instead of asking, "What does my business need right now?" you begin asking, "What should I post today?" Your attention shifts from customers to followers, from solving problems to telling stories, and from creating value to maintaining an image. The very strategy that was supposed to help you build a business starts controlling how you build it.

If your business decisions are being shaped by what gets applause online, you are no longer building entirely for your customers. You are building for an audience.

There is also a side of building in public that requires more maturity than people realize: knowing what not to share. Transparency is powerful, but transparency without judgment can be costly. Not every experiment needs to be announced. Not every unfinished idea needs an audience. Not every partnership, customer conversation, or strategic decision belongs on the internet.

Some things need room to develop before they are exposed to public opinion. Sharing too early can invite criticism from people who lack the context to understand your decisions. It can create unnecessary pressure to follow through on ideas that should have been abandoned. It can reveal sensitive information about customers, business operations, or competitive strategy. And sometimes, constant public commentary prevents you from thinking clearly because you are too busy explaining your decisions to others.

You do not owe the internet access to every part of your journey. You owe yourself the space to think, experiment, make mistakes, and change direction without turning every decision into a public event.

The most effective way to build in public is to understand that the business comes first and the content comes second. Share lessons that could genuinely help others. Explain the problems you are solving and why they matter. Be honest about setbacks without turning every failure into a performance. Show evidence of progress rather than relying entirely on ambitious promises. Most importantly, use the feedback you receive to improve your product, understand your market, and make better decisions.

Instead of measuring success by followers, measure whether people are becoming customers. Instead of celebrating views alone, ask whether your content is building trust with the right people. Instead of announcing everything you plan to do, demonstrate what you have actually learned and accomplished. Your online presence should support your work, not replace it.

And remember that building in public does not eliminate the fundamentals of entrepreneurship. You still need a valuable product, a clear understanding of your customer, the ability to sell, financial discipline, and the resilience to keep going when nobody is paying attention. An audience can accelerate a good business, but it cannot permanently compensate for a business that fails to solve a meaningful problem.

Ultimately, building in public is neither a shortcut to success nor a waste of time. It is a tool. Used wisely, it can create trust, open doors, attract customers, and help you learn faster. Used carelessly, it can turn ambition into performance and productivity into an illusion.

The real challenge is having the discipline to keep building when the work is boring, the results are invisible, and nobody is watching. It is choosing to improve your product instead of chasing another viral post. It is being willing to admit that your strategy is not working, even when you have publicly committed to it. It is understanding that the purpose of documenting your journey is not to convince strangers that you are successful, but to create something that genuinely deserves to succeed.

The internet does not need another person pretending to build a business. It needs more people willing to do the difficult, unglamorous work of building one.

Build something worth talking about before becoming obsessed with talking about it. Let your content create opportunities, but let your work create value. Share your journey, but never become so attached to the story that you forget to live it.

Because when the attention fades, the likes disappear, and the audience moves on to the next exciting thing, one question will remain:

Did you actually build a business, or did you just build the appearance of one?

All essaysImran Tejani